I think one of the main things that people forget about Facebook, is that you are communicating with MANY vs. one on one. Let me explain. When you post on someone's "wall" most believe that they are just speaking with that person...so not true. Think about it. On average, most Facebook users have friend lists of over 200 people. Still think you are "just" posting to ONE? Probably a good idea, before you hit the send/reply button, that you remember that you are communicating with not ONE but MANY. Would it be best to send a private message instead so you actually are communicating with ONE?
Next up...
How many of you have a "record?" (Scratch that. You probably should keep that to yourself). Truth be told, anyone who has a Facebook account has a public "record." Scary? For sure. Even if you have your privacy settings adjusted to optimum security, when you post on your wall or someone else's wall you have a PUBLIC "record." Again, ask yourself if what you are posting would be best in a private message.
but WAIT, there's more...
Those who know me well, know that I am fairly fluent in sarcasm. While this translates well in face to face communication, it does NOT translate well on Facebook. There is no way to let someone know you are being "sarcastic" until after your post is taken the wrong way. Think about all of the people who may not have the benefit of seeing your entire conversation, that part especially where you say "I was kidding." You guessed it, probably best to leave the sarcasm for face to face conversations.
Moral of the story?
*Remember you are NOT communicating just with your "friend" but ALL of your "friends" and all of their "friends."
*Be clear in your message. No sarcasm or private jokes that can be taken by others in the wrong way.
*Keep your public record "clean."
Communicate wisely, my friends.
